Well, these are questions that we might often ask ourselves.
"Why can't I do anything right?"
"Why didn't I think of it earlier?"
" How could I have missed that?"
I am sure that at least 1out of 10 people reading this would understand the situation.
Ever had the one moment when you were in need of an excellent idea but you just couldn't think of it and, when everything is over, you would ponder and tell yourself that you could have done something different and much interesting or better for make the event/moment an unforgettable one?
Well, I am not an expert or a psychologist to tell you about the technical problems that happens in your brain. I can only tell you of what I know from experience and observation.
The main reason why we can't seem to think properly at the time of need is because we are to worried. When we worry too much, we are automatically afraid to take risks. We are also afraid to try new ideas because, we are worried if it will not turn out right.
Worrying about ideas before putting them into action becomes the main reason for a plan or an idea to fail.
At the end, some of us might just give up. Some might drive themselves crazy. Some might drive themselves into depression.
Worrying also causes people to stay away from you as you give off a really uncomfortable aura. People tend to stay away and act really weird around you as you send out negative vibes to them. They working environment becomes really up tight and it makes others feel as though there is no room for air. So, they move away.
Sometimes, people might think that you are complaining or being angry even though you are talking to them in a tone that's considered polite (to you of course).
Worrying also changes your mood. You get tired easily and finally you are socially diagnosed to be stressed.
I remember Bob Marley's song titled "Don't worry, be happy". That song just makes me smile. The lyrics are funny and the music is soothing. The most important phrase in the whole song is; "DON'T WORRY, BE HAPPY." I know Bob Marley could have been really high on weeds when he sang the song but, what ever it was, the song definitely turn out right.
It's true what Bob Marley said in his song. Don't worry and just be happy.
You are not homeless,
you have food to eat,
you have clothes to wear,
you have people that you can depend on somehow or rather.
No matter what happens, don't worry and be happy. If there is a way in, there will always be a way out. Sometimes, plans work out and sometimes, they don't. It doesn't mean it's the end of the world. It just means, more opportunities to keep trying out new ideas. I means more opportunities to improve ones self. It means to open up opportunities to test the balance of possible and impossibles.
There is only one cure for being worried and it is;
LAUGHTER!
Just wake up every morning and laugh. If you don't laugh, then just smile. Don't worry, people won't think that you are crazy.
I mean, how crazy can you be when you are already living in this crazy world anyways right?
I mean, the world is already full of weed, drugs and whole of other kind of shit anyways. How bad can it be to wake up and laugh every morning?
Relax. Don't worry and be happy!
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Tuesday 3 July 2012
Don't Worry, Be Happy!
Well, these are questions that we might often ask ourselves.
"Why can't I do anything right?"
"Why didn't I think of it earlier?"
" How could I have missed that?"
I am sure that at least 1out of 10 people reading this would understand the situation.
Ever had the one moment when you were in need of an excellent idea but you just couldn't think of it and, when everything is over, you would ponder and tell yourself that you could have done something different and much interesting or better for make the event/moment an unforgettable one?
Well, I am not an expert or a psychologist to tell you about the technical problems that happens in your brain. I can only tell you of what I know from experience and observation.
The main reason why we can't seem to think properly at the time of need is because we are to worried. When we worry too much, we are automatically afraid to take risks. We are also afraid to try new ideas because, we are worried if it will not turn out right.
Worrying about ideas before putting them into action becomes the main reason for a plan or an idea to fail.
At the end, some of us might just give up. Some might drive themselves crazy. Some might drive themselves into depression.
Worrying also causes people to stay away from you as you give off a really uncomfortable aura. People tend to stay away and act really weird around you as you send out negative vibes to them. They working environment becomes really up tight and it makes others feel as though there is no room for air. So, they move away.
Sometimes, people might think that you are complaining or being angry even though you are talking to them in a tone that's considered polite (to you of course).
Worrying also changes your mood. You get tired easily and finally you are socially diagnosed to be stressed.
I remember Bob Marley's song titled "Don't worry, be happy". That song just makes me smile. The lyrics are funny and the music is soothing. The most important phrase in the whole song is; "DON'T WORRY, BE HAPPY." I know Bob Marley could have been really high on weeds when he sang the song but, what ever it was, the song definitely turn out right.
It's true what Bob Marley said in his song. Don't worry and just be happy.
You are not homeless,
you have food to eat,
you have clothes to wear,
you have people that you can depend on somehow or rather.
No matter what happens, don't worry and be happy. If there is a way in, there will always be a way out. Sometimes, plans work out and sometimes, they don't. It doesn't mean it's the end of the world. It just means, more opportunities to keep trying out new ideas. I means more opportunities to improve ones self. It means to open up opportunities to test the balance of possible and impossibles.
There is only one cure for being worried and it is;
LAUGHTER!
Just wake up every morning and laugh. If you don't laugh, then just smile. Don't worry, people won't think that you are crazy.
I mean, how crazy can you be when you are already living in this crazy world anyways right?
I mean, the world is already full of weed, drugs and whole of other kind of shit anyways. How bad can it be to wake up and laugh every morning?
Relax. Don't worry and be happy!
"Why can't I do anything right?"
"Why didn't I think of it earlier?"
" How could I have missed that?"
I am sure that at least 1out of 10 people reading this would understand the situation.
Ever had the one moment when you were in need of an excellent idea but you just couldn't think of it and, when everything is over, you would ponder and tell yourself that you could have done something different and much interesting or better for make the event/moment an unforgettable one?
Well, I am not an expert or a psychologist to tell you about the technical problems that happens in your brain. I can only tell you of what I know from experience and observation.
The main reason why we can't seem to think properly at the time of need is because we are to worried. When we worry too much, we are automatically afraid to take risks. We are also afraid to try new ideas because, we are worried if it will not turn out right.
Worrying about ideas before putting them into action becomes the main reason for a plan or an idea to fail.
At the end, some of us might just give up. Some might drive themselves crazy. Some might drive themselves into depression.
Worrying also causes people to stay away from you as you give off a really uncomfortable aura. People tend to stay away and act really weird around you as you send out negative vibes to them. They working environment becomes really up tight and it makes others feel as though there is no room for air. So, they move away.
Sometimes, people might think that you are complaining or being angry even though you are talking to them in a tone that's considered polite (to you of course).
Worrying also changes your mood. You get tired easily and finally you are socially diagnosed to be stressed.
I remember Bob Marley's song titled "Don't worry, be happy". That song just makes me smile. The lyrics are funny and the music is soothing. The most important phrase in the whole song is; "DON'T WORRY, BE HAPPY." I know Bob Marley could have been really high on weeds when he sang the song but, what ever it was, the song definitely turn out right.
It's true what Bob Marley said in his song. Don't worry and just be happy.
You are not homeless,
you have food to eat,
you have clothes to wear,
you have people that you can depend on somehow or rather.
No matter what happens, don't worry and be happy. If there is a way in, there will always be a way out. Sometimes, plans work out and sometimes, they don't. It doesn't mean it's the end of the world. It just means, more opportunities to keep trying out new ideas. I means more opportunities to improve ones self. It means to open up opportunities to test the balance of possible and impossibles.
There is only one cure for being worried and it is;
LAUGHTER!
Just wake up every morning and laugh. If you don't laugh, then just smile. Don't worry, people won't think that you are crazy.
I mean, how crazy can you be when you are already living in this crazy world anyways right?
I mean, the world is already full of weed, drugs and whole of other kind of shit anyways. How bad can it be to wake up and laugh every morning?
Relax. Don't worry and be happy!
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